Winner & Loser

A winner changes own behavior.
A loser tries to change the behavior of others.

A winner works harder - and still has time.
A loser is always too busy to do what is necessary.

A winner emphasizes possibilities.
A loser focuses on problems.

A winner uses time to improve.
A loser uses time to avoid criticism.

A winner explains.
A loser makes excuses.

A winner focuses on solutions.
A loser focuses on apologies.

A winner commits themselves.
A loser makes promises - but does not keep them.

A winner knows when to make a stand - and when to give way.
A loser gives in when a firm stand is called for & fights for the unimportant.

A winner has respect for the ability of others and is always willing to learn from them.
A loser concentrates on other people's weaknesses.

A winner accepts other people's differences.
A loser does not accept other people's right to be different.